Kids can shock you and it tells you a lot about them in how they think. Your daughter will think differently to others around her and it is about how she is bought up. It has to reflect in how she thinks and plays as everything she does has been a consequence of what you two are teaching her. It is fascinating to see others pick up on that and is a reflection on you two.
I am looking forward to seeing what differences there are and what negatives there might be. There is no perfect way to raise and it will never match all needs of the future, but there are still large variations in results of what we all do and face and hopefully this path will lead to her being happy, whatever that means for her.
Having someone as thoughtful as you as a parent will give her a leg up in life no doubt.
Or a hot mess of complexes :)
Yes, there is a perfect way and I believe you already know it. From my viewpoint your intuition has been pretty accurate & successful so far. From the distance I can feel that your previous experiences, curiosity & common sense consciously or subconsciously has been guiding you on the right track. :)
But for more precise enlightening or for know exactly why I think like this. You will have to click here or scroll down a little bit more. :p