it can be frustrating to see people fall apart for seemingly trivial reasons when one had to tough out things that were a million times harsher. That being said I have learned that the more crap you go through and survive the higher the threshold so i am never sure if I am being unjust at feeling miffed at people. In the end I guess it does not matter what matters is if your are useful to a situation and sadly it seems that in this case you are not, as you are talking to a brick wall. As painful as it is walking away was the right choice at least for now ...