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RE: The Man Cave | A New Social Community + New Coin Coming!

in #teammalaysia6 years ago

Good job @zord189 buddy and congrats to @raymondspeaks to the setting up of @mancave.
I do see one crack in the foundation though; the open invite to women to join. While I do agree that both sexes do indeed compliment each other, both sexes are made to be distinctly different.

This is most apparent where you might have a group of men discussing things openly e.g. the hot dates they have just had what they did after. The moment a woman walks in, the discussion awkwardly changes direction. The point is men will be open in a woman free zone.

You won't find women inviting men to the washroom when they go with their buddies to have a private conversation. ;) And that's completely fine.

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Good point! But I've always been a fan of openness, truth and honesty. If you can't share your whole self in the open what type of man are you? :) Are you lying to others, or yourself? :)

Hahaha, are you're trying to use the emotional argument here to imply that

  1. The openness of a group or forum automatically is related directly to the character of a person?
  2. if a person is not open, he's either not a man or man of little value? i.e. lying to oneself.
  3. the openness of the group automatically means being truthful and honest?

It is your forum man, so of course you have the option to run it any which way you choose.

However, note that there is always a price to openness. It means that you will need a very strong community to guide the direction of the forum or risk it being invaded by foreign elements.

Historically speaking, there is hardly any forum / group of humans that has survived being completely open from day one without first being strong. The native Indians were open initial Europeans and were wiped out long before the USA as a country was formed.

Any society must first have a very strong governance, working-culture and direction first before it opens up to "outsiders". This usually takes some time e.g. 1 year. Even then these new "outsides" should only allowed in at very low rates (say 5% of total population per quarter). Sudden high influx of any foreign elements will quickly disrupt and overrun the group/forum.

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