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RE: How We Kill Our Love Lives Part 1
And I would like to add, I was once got the same label "The Alpha", well sometimes I had to step in when nothing is done. Or do things that may step on toes. And true enough, things gets done after that and I get people who just cant cope with my style/energy. I am comfortable with that now, to me it doesnt matter, as long as things gets done accordingly as long as I do not harm anyone.
It is always a little difficult with managing things like that, and striving the balance to be able to be the Alpha and The Feminine is one of the issues I think we women struggle with. Or I do anyway. But I try as much as I can to come back by doing practicing certain routines etc.
Ultimately, I think it is what we are looking for/ seeing to become. And for what purpose are we trying to achieve.
Alot of us women need to become the breadwinner, or we need to rise above challenges in a situation where no one else is capable of doing anything. In which if that's the case, often times, we come into Alpha mode to take charge. The question is: When does that stop? Do we know how to? Which was one of my lesson.
Interesting hey..
Yes interesting topic for a discussion, you definitely should be on our forum one day :-)