"It is not what happens to you, it is how you react to it." This is actually true. Someone once told me you being happy or sad all depends on you and not someone else. What you have is your focus point or happiness and not what you don't have.
A positive mind, focused thought and a rest mind or a worryless mind is what make you have a great life. Thanks for sharing @bitdollar, you are always awesome with your post and have never for once let me down. Love ya