Failure is a matter of perspective. If set backs are viewed as a lesson or stepping stone to becoming the person you want to be or living the life of your dream, then even "failure" can be a great blessing with something valuable to extract.

If, however, you hold a core belief that you are worthless and can never achieve anything, then you'll never be successful because those energetics will always, always, always manifest in physical reality.

Perspective is part of subconscious core operating system, which is programmed in every moment from (and maybe before) birth through parenting as well as through institutions like schooling.

Most people aren't even aware of their core operating system, and thus have no chance of evolving past the programming.

For those who do recognize their dysfunctional tendencies, it takes conscious effort to turn them around...which can be really, really, really hard if your nervous system is hardwired to tell you you're a failure. The rotten core belief will find a way to sabotage even the best intentions.

The current mainstream system produces way more broken, unhappy, unhealthy people than satisfied and successful people...which gives us parents that raise more broken, unhappy, unhealthy children, who become broken, unhappy, unhealthy parents and on and on and on.

The current mainstream system does not work for programming successful children to become successful adults. The mainstream system itself is a failure of epic proportions.

We need a totally different way to raise empowered, conscious, capable children. We need a revolution.

I know that an alternative is being lived @gardenofeden. We're being the change we want to see in this world to rise above a failed system.