So true! This is why I think many people keep friends around that aren't healthy or a partner is because of the insecurities.

I went through the same thing of being alone and putting myself in that position because it was the best for me. I learned to love myself and enjoy life that way in every aspect. I really don't need anyone if that was the case. Like you said you then just allow the best people in your life and it is icing on the cake!

Great share here @soulsistashakti, I love your insight! :)