The Benefits of Patience We Do.

The Benefits of Patience We Do.

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Inadvertently Angkasa see Dew is being alone with a man who his age in a shopping center. Several times he rubbed his eyes only to make sure he was not mistaken. Appeared by his eyes Dew so lively walking along with the man. True, Space is not wrong look. It's true Dew, his cousin who is quite close to him. Unfortunately, Dew is not aware of the presence of Angkasa who was watching it.

Space does not know who the man besides Dew. All this time Angkasa really know anyone who became friends Dew. Starting from a coworker, peer reviewing to friends of his house. Because the house is indeed Air and Dew is contiguous.

Space did not immediately greet Dew at once. He does not want to immediately embarrass Embun if he melabraknya directly. Space trying to stay positive thinking.

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When Angkasa returns from the shopping center, he keeps thinking about what he has just seen. He did not believe it. Before returning home, Angkasa accidentally stopped by the house Pakde Ahmad, Dew father.

"Assalamu'alaikum Pakde." Sapa Angkasa.

Pakde Ahmad who was then seriously finishing his job as an electronic repairman, turned his head. "Wa'alaikumussalaam. Eh you Sa. Come in. Your bude is making your favorite fried banana. "

"Yes Pakde thank you." Angkasa said as he walked into the Dew house.

He found Bude Fatma busy frying in his tiny kitchen.

"Hmmm ... It smells really good Bude. Make Asa's stomach suddenly hungry. "Asa approached Budenya and immediately took the position next to him.

"Asa, just tell me Bude is making your favorite food. Tuh, there are already ripen on the table. You take it. "

Asa approached the table and picked up a piece of fried banana that really stirred his appetite and ate it greedily.

"Oh yes Bude, Dew really invisible. Where is he? "Angkasa asked as she chewed on her fried banana.

"Dew from the afternoon went. He said he wanted to find a book. "

"Who is Bude?"

Bude does not know Sa. Because the house Dew went alone and he did not say if you want to go with anyone. "

The air went silent. Who was the Dew with.

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The age of the sky and the dew is only two years apart. Since childhood they played together. Dew's father is the elder brother of Angkasa's mother. From elementary to high school they are the same. The memory of the high school age is the time of dew to emigrate. At that time, Dew Class 1 and Angkasa had stepped on the 3rd grade. Angkasa remember how naughty Dew in junior high, he already knew whose name was male. Dew does have a sweet face and easy to mingle. So do not be surprised if many are interested in it. The problem is Dew is still very small, his mind is still not clear. Her parents often remind cautious associate with men, Dew according. But if any of his guys invite him away, he will not refuse. It was done without the knowledge of his parents.

Usually, I'm the one who often caught Dew together with his boyfriend. Dew often begs not to report it to his parents. Dew fear if his father knew, then his heart disease will recur.

The Dew wondered, Dew never really paid attention to his father's illness. Time and again Angkasa caught and many times Angkasa always advise. But Dew just said yes, yes it will not be repeated. And the next day. The sky again saw the Dew behave similarly.

"Is Dew back like before?" Space wandering.

"Aah .. hopefully not." Space then tried to neutralize his thoughts.

Entering high school, Dew is slowly changing. Probably because his association has now changed. Space proposes to Dew's dad to include the same school Dew, in order to keep the Dew-the reason.

Space is also the introduction of Dew to the activities of Rohis and to the friends of Angkasa the majority of headscarf and berakhlaq good, inshaAllah. Alhamdulillah, Dew is not a stubborn child, so he is very open with all the good input. Although his soul is still a bit unstable. At least it's a good first step to keep the Dew on the right track.

It turns out that good association is very influential for Dew. Now, Dew has been wearing the hijab. Not just a head covering, but a hijab that really meets the shari'ah. Interaction with the opposite sex, has reduced a very drastic decline compared to the first. It really turned one hundred and eighty degrees compared to when Dew was Junior High.

"Dew, now you rarely walk the way with your male friends?" Ask Angkasa idly.

"Hehehe. Yes donk Mas. I now want to be a woman shalihah, an expensive woman who is not easily touched by the opposite sex. Let God love me and later when I get married, I can get a good man Mas. So I want to keep a distance. "Answer Dew

"Clever you now. It's no harm. Mas invite you to join Rohis. "

"Thank you sir. Now I understand more about the interaction of the opposite sex. Pray for me Mas, to remain istiqomah. "

"InsyaAllah the deck."

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Toward nine o'clock he saw Dew just coming home. He wanted to ask directly what he saw this afternoon.

"Just go home Bun, from where?" Dew that was going to eat, surprised.

"Mas Asa, when is he coming home?" Dew's face instantly develops his biggest smile. Indeed, since graduating from school, Asa decided to study in another city. And continue until he works.

"Yesterday evening. But you're asleep when Mas comes home and earlier this morning there's an appointment with a friend. That's why we just met now. "

"Oh yes. You have not answered the question. Where did you come from when you came home? "

"This mas. It has never changed. Always worry if I come home tonight. And it's only nine o'clock. I was from Mas's bookstore. Some are looking for. "

"Ooh that. Just who is the deck? "Curious curiosity with Dew's answer.

"Who is it?" Dew even replied with a joke.

"You were asked instead of answered, even so Bun?"

"Lagian Mas, too. Come to come instead of how Dew news. Dew work how. Dew also has not asked how Mas circumstances. Eeh instead Dew like interrogated like this. "

"Yes sorry Bun. Immediately wrote yes. "Air Tightness looks serious.

"What is Mas? why suddenly serious? "Dew curious.

"Look, this afternoon Mas saw you in the shopping center. But Mas see you are not alone. You both with a man. And Mas does not know who he is. "

Dew smiles.

"Is there something Mas still does not know about you Bun?"

"Yes, yes, yes."

"Meaning?"

"Mas promise ya do not tell anyone including our distant family."

"Hmm .. InsyaAllah the deck."

"Actually what Mas saw this afternoon was my husband. Sorry if Mas does not know our marriage, because Dew does not want to bother Mas who is currently in education office. Moreover, the distance is also good if Mas must go home. "

"I deliberately kept my marriage a secret. Because my husband is on probation at his office and does not allow his employees to get married first in the span of six months. It's only been two weeks since we were married and at that time only Mas's family was present. "

"Alhamdulillah, it turns out I think right not to prejudice first." Space stroked the chest, feeling a very relief. Despite the fact, he had been married by his cousin.

"So you have not lived together yet?"

"Not yet Mas."

Drawing happiness in the Dew face. Something he's looking forward to, he's done now.

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The air still remembered when two years ago he came home. It was 23 years old. The age at which women want to be loved and loved. And Dew is experiencing the same thing.

"Mas, I'm ready to get married. Can ask help find? "Dew asked at that time.

"Have you asked Teacher to study you?"

"It's Mas, but there has been no response. Moreover he is open. If there is a candidate from Mas, I will tell my story. "

"At the moment Mas has no candidate for you, because a close friend of Mas has not expressed a desire to get married anytime soon."

"Yes udah Mas is fine. Maybe later Mas can let me know if anyone is ready. "

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Dew. My cousin my dear sister. Me and Dew are both only children and automatically we are close. Although we were in a different city but the communication between us remained smooth. Though about her marriage matter, she did not tell me.

But I am very aware of the process of seeking Dew for the priest who will become its leader. But with the man who now becomes her husband now, Dew has never told.

The search process is not exactly easy. Several times trying to berta'aruf but not one he managed to do. When there is information about a man who is ready to marry and the man is told about the Dew in outline, suddenly the men are reluctant to continue for reasons that are not clear. I do not know, with her husband now he has undergone ta'aruf process how many times.

Dew is always trying to think positive. Despite what I know, her desire to perfect her half-religion is so strong. But he is sure, will be beautiful in time and every human there must be his soul mate. Also a good person will definitely get good too. That's how Dew tried to strengthen himself.

Although Dew must see one by one his close friend sends his wedding invitation or when hearing his peers have given birth to his first child or when there are gatherings with his friends and he see there is a friend who brought his partner. As a normal woman, obviously she wanted to feel as well. He has also been sad about it. I am the one who has always been the place to vent Dew after God of course.

What I salute from Dew is his desire to keep his patience to continue waiting for his wedding day without accompanied by the process of courtship before. He does not want God to be unhappy with him. With a sweet face, he could have lured his male friend to love him and approached him. But that is not done Dew. Precisely before I knew he was married, Dew kept his distance with his male friends and reduced interaction with the opposite sex. He does not want his past mistakes for recurring dating. Quite the past becomes a valuable lesson. He tried to keep his heart from slipping to the non-haq.

And if now he married. It is definitely the fruit of his patience so far that I know is not easy for a woman to hold her feelings. My best wishes for you deck. May you drive your home only in the shade of His blessings. Aamiin.

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