RE: YOUR RAISING - MY UPBRINGING. What's important after parents split up?
Thank you for reading. Glad, to hear of you again.
I agree with you - I would just use other terms because "united front" sounds and feels for the kids often more like "front" instead of "united" :)) If it is truly united everything is fine. What I see and experience is, there is a desire to want to pull together, but not to be able to have a unified view internally. If it gets faigned - because one of the parents doesn't dare to solve the conflict with the other parent - it all goes into the wrong direction.
I would suggest, that if a certain way cannot be maintained after all, it is needed that differences can be accepted. That is actually a great relief for parents who always have thought of them as this "must be united... , must be united .... " and totally underestimated their kids who are perfectly capable of distinguishing between different parenting styles.
happy to see you too. I agree, differences have to be accepted and children are often given less nous than they warrant. Maybe one day divorce will be a thing of the past. Happy Steeming!
Oh, yes, that would be fantastic. Have you ever heard of a folk in Asia - forgot the name - thy have mother-centered clans. Really fascinating people. There is no divorce because when a couple splits, there is no change whatsoever in circumstances for the whole family. Kids stay at moms house and men & women don't move together but also stay in their mother house. You got me an idea for my next series!! Thank you.
Stay magic!
Well, you know what they say - Mother knows best! You stay magic too!