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RE: The Steem Sister Show - Episode 60 // Feminism (Extended Episode)

in #steemsistershow6 years ago

Oh no (cringing) - can't watch. Feminism was great 70 years ago. These days it is out to destroy families, men and God. Equal rights = special rights. And if modern feminism was legitimate - feminists would be fighting inequality in the East.

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This is the awful truth of feminism mielia and this is an excellent article. Thankyou for bringing it to my attention.

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Comments like this are exactly why this conversation is still relevant. You are basically saying that any woman (who isn’t from the East) that dare talk about inequality must be a man-hating, family destroying human being. And all without even taking a second to watch what we said – or probably even reading the section above that says:

It makes me so sad that the word feminism has such a bad rap. Sure, there are some bad characters out there – but just to clear the record – feminism does not equal man hating. In fact, quite the opposite.

One of the things we talk about in this episode is the idea of empathy. Just because someone doesn’t think that inequality or sexism still exists in modern culture – doesn’t mean that it doesn’t. We all have different experiences on this earth and understanding that sometimes our privilege does blind us to the struggles of others is important. In the same way that a man might not be able to fully understand the ways that women still deal with sexism – People like Mary and I also need to have extra empathy for minorities and other groups that experience inequality. Being two white girls offers us certain privileges – such as not having to fear a policeman in the same way that someone of color might.

Again, I want to point out that we all have different experiences and my statements are not meant to be generalized. I’m sure there are women who would say they never experience sexism, and there are minorities that would say they never experience inequality – but when you see societal patterns – that is usually a sign that there is still a problem.

This Knight appreciates the well considered reply.

Nevertheless if sexism is now of minor concern in the West - what is all the feminist fuss about?

If 'empathy for all' is your focus - why label yourself a feminist?

And finally ladies - when it comes to your privileges - remember Justine Damond? Careful what you wish for.

SirKnight.

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Hey thanks for the reply. I'm thinking you probably still didn't watch the episode based on your comments, but that's totally okay. If you know it will be a trigger for you to watch it - then it's probably shouldn't anyway. :)

Minor concern is in the eye of the beholder. I personally don't experience extreme situations of sexism (more subtle) but that doesn't mean that other people aren't experiencing more dramatic situations.

I don't label myself as a feminist. I label myself as a generally good human being that thinks everyone should have the opportunity to pursue of life filled with freedom and happiness. Regardless of gender or race.

Your final comment doesn't make a lot of sense to me - but okay. By saying that as a white female, I don't feel a lot of fear around cops - doesn't mean that i'm saying a white woman has never been shot by a cop or has been treated unfairly. In fact - there are tons of examples of women being raped by cops etc. I just haven't had any of those experiences, and so I don't feel that fear.

Just like in this entire conversation - I try to mostly talk about my own experiences and the experiences of the people around me. Much easier to have a meaningful conversation when I do that instead of making generalized statements.

I started watching - and honestly you were so apologetic, I realised you had little conviction for the topic anyhow.

You have then said here that you are not really a feminist anyhow and that you are just a good human being, who has never really suffered sexism. So my suggestion would be don't fight an enemy of the west that doesn't actually exist.

Modern feminism is playing a big role in male suicide, family breakup and is leading to new anti-social initiatives like MGTOW.

Join the conservatives.

SirKnight.

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Subtle sexism is still oppressive in so many ways. Saying that it doesn’t matter is It’s basically saying, “But you can vote now! Isn’t that enough?” Saying I haven’t been affected by sexism would be a massive understatement.

Im afraid we might keep spinning in circles if we keep going on this topic. I dont see much point in that. My belief system is one of liberty and freedom - which means you are completely entitled to your opinion and viewpoint - as I am to mine. Thanks for the comments and conversation.

Sometimes a woman (women) might use their looks, charm and sex appeal to get what they desire - this is okay and natural. However, sometimes sexy, charming women don't get what they want - and now it is 'sexism'.

You are young. Hopefully with time you will realise that men and women together, united, is far more beneficial for humanity than men and women divided.

SirKnight.

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