why do you think you should please anybody?
Just be a man a if you talking about sth do it personally. Dont hide behind disclosures. That is weak.
I think that nowadays many ppl hide behind sth instead of standing up for sth which is worth it.
Its not worth to do things like you do - its childish and I mean both of you.
Maybe what you said about @fyrstiken is true or maybe not. Fact is that his language and attitude need a bit adjustment ;)