I am a believer in this philosophy. In all relationships, it is best not to create or leave enemies in your trail as you never know when you might cross paths again. I will also say though that sometimes the torch that lights your own bridge isn't by your own hand. Or if by you not intended to leave damage or cause harm. I have found that it is possible to rebuild these bridges and when done they can be stronger and better than ever before. Whether an ex-lover, ex-boss or ex-friend you have the power to fix things....most of the time. And if you do, you are stronger from it too.