Give Appreciation for his efforts # Part II

Hi, dear friend steemian, how are you all ..?, Before I have discussed about https://steemit.com/steemiteducation/@nellysteem/give-appreciation-for-his-efforts-part-i
so I want to continue again "Give Apriasi for his efforts" Part II

If You Want to Obey.

sumber

When we try to educate our children with knowledge, or encourage them to be earnest in doing the work we give them. When we try to do this in a voluntary way, they will learn what we want very quickly to then complete all the tasks as well as possible.
But both of these things we apply with threats, surely our children will not pour their knowledge. And, when we ask them to do something, they will simply obey the request.

Forgive

God never burdens a person but according to his ability. Everyone has certain limits of ability and ability that can not be violated. If a person is required to do something beyond his ability, surely he will not perfectly do it.
Therefore, one proof of the intelligence of an educator is to know all the potential of his children. The goal is for educators to demand only what they can do so that they do not fall into any mistakes. Therefore, parents will certainly not burden the child with something that is beyond the limits of his ability. Before thinking, a good parent must first think: "is my child able to do this or not so I destroy myself?".

To my fellow educators, so should all forms of forgiveness be done to the child. Do not burden them with something beyond their means, then forgive them for their mistakes, weaknesses, and shortcomings. The relationship between educators and students should be built on three conditions:
1. let the educator only give orders and prohibitions that contain the benefit for the students.
2. let the educator give appreciation for the obedience done by the students.
3. let the educator be aware that the students can obey and can reject the instruction of the educator.
For most parents, the problem with learning has become an issue that must be faced daily. Fuss, the problem affects the relationship between children and their parents, causing the appearance of an unending feeling of depression. Often, parents are confused about how to make their children pay attention to the lessons and how to foster motivation to move forward in children.
If you, my fellow educator, have such problems, then before you begin the steps to solve them, make sure first that you are part of the solution and not part of the problem.

"But how …..?"

"Here's the explanation ...."

Equally we can know that usually, when parents do not succeed in achieving the ideals they covet, they demand their children to achieve that goal. Of course, such actions are not wrong. However, problems usually arise if the parents do not prepare the child to reach these goals and do not take care of the tendency of children.
Is it true that a child who behaves like that can not be repaired at all ...? In fact, every child can be changed, fixed, and directed toward goodness. All parents need to do is understand the ability of children and know the ideals and interests, to then parents try to teach children properly.

Conclusion

If it is done well we will see the children absorb the lessons faster, because they realize that what they are doing is related to their future life and everything they crave in life. That's why one of the ways you take your child to success and excellence is to use the interesting things for them.

Solution

So I have an educational advice for you: "If you want to be obeyed, then command something that can be done".