Children are allowed to make mistakes

Mistakes and defeats are bitter for children. They are even more bitter for parents who have to watch the child's "failure" and frustration. Nevertheless, it is extremely important for a child to make mistakes, because as the beautiful saying goes: "From harm you become wise!". Give your child the chance to make mistakes and learn important things for life.

As a parent, you can not spare your child his own experience. Sermons of experienced adults seldom help - the background is that new experiences are not stored via the mind but through one's own experience. Only in this way will they be remembered in the long term. This applies at least to elementary age, in some areas a lifetime. The biggest help you can give a child is the confidence that it is strong and brave enough to take on defeat.

Dad just did not look, already the two-year-old Tim climbed the ladder leaning against the wall halfway up. He has the opportunity to find a true sense of achievement here, but there is also the risk that he will fall and get hurt. What to do? Sure, you can pick off son and tell him long-winded that this is too dangerous. But you can also climb behind him and catch his fall lovingly if it happens at all.

Children must be allowed to make mistakes

Her daughter is a craftsman and has big plans, but nothing works. Resist the temptation to take her work off even if you see that she is making mistakes. If you reach your goal in the end and that alone, your self-confidence will be strengthened; If you fail, you can show your ways to deal with the resulting frustration.

Defeats make you smart and courageous. Because when a child has to tinker with solutions, it becomes creative and new synapses are formed in the brain. Thus a child learns from defeat and success important things for the whole life.