In the work that I do, this refers to the ideas of toxic vs. authentic shame. We so often come to feel bad about ourselves for the ideas of other people and outside expectations. But if we can learn to listen to our own true shame, it can help us be respectful while being true to ourselves.
Also, I don't think anyone should be shamed for dancing, ever. :D
Yes nobody should be shamed for dancing. I completely agree with that. It is so much fun and so special. Oh thank you for giving this a term. It makes a lot of sense. I wish we do start being more aware of what actually shames and our own genuine feelings. It really gives us a better insight into our own self.