Blog 21: Timely for Valentine’s Day: “WHERE DO BROKEN HEARTS GO?”

in #steemitachievers7 years ago (edited)

Hello everyone especially from the Philippines and to those countries celebrating Valentine’s Day!

I’m actually inspired by the song “Where do broken hearts go” by Whitney Houston, which is one of my favorite songs, a very meaningful song because it is about a woman trying to convince her boyfriend to come back to her even if she had enough depth.


Every one of us has had to experience broken heart in anyways at least once in our lives. Let me say that broken heart feels like millions of knife going through you at every moment, and can’t even hide it, even how many times you are trying to escape from the pain. You are being so sensitive to anything that reminds you of him/her, your heart is in deeper much pain, full of sorrow, you even forget how to smile genuinely. Crying all night long and just remembering the pain that he/she had caused. We even change who really we are just to fit the person’s need. Yes! All of these might happen to us, but it doesn’t mean that you have to stop your world, l want you to bear in your mind your worth as a person. When someone breaks your heart think about what you can do to make the better version of yourself because the best revenge is to be a successful one.

My curiosity drives me to ask few of my friends “Where do really broken hearts go?” and here are their answers:

Hanging Out with Friends – Alonica is hanging out with her friends the time that she was suffering from the major falling out, from being wrecked, she shares all about her problems to her friends, the pain, bad words, shamefulness and everything she did just to cover up the stupidity of his boyfriend. She was actually devastated and taken for granted, she can’t even believe that she allows herself to be treated that way, she considers her friends as an outlet. They go out, drink, and amused her just to wake her up, from her nightmare. And gradually, she was able to recover everything and aftermath, she is now an independent strong woman.

Committing Suicide - Elvin is committing suicide that very moment when his girlfriend breaks up with him, thinking that she will not come back anymore, and the thought that they both have plans together, he already pictures his future with her. His family already accepted and approved whatever decision that they might have on their way as a couple. But Life wins, he realized that he still have a long way to go, he should fight for his love and win her back, he did everything for what he believed is right, and proved to her that he really loves her that much, and fortunately the girl comeback because of his perseverance to make their relationship worth fighting for.

Trying to open her heart to another Man – Mj told me that the best way to forget someone especially when he hurts you over and over again is to open your heart and let somebody in because when a new person comes into your life who loves you, and who you are capable of loving in return, you'll barely think of this older love at all, and that’s what she did, she is now happy with her new boyfriend, she is more than contented and happy now without any hesitations in life.

Making the Best Version of herself – Reca my college friend give me this quote, that reminds her everyday “If you want to do extraordinary things in life if you want to become the best version of yourself, you must have extraordinary faith in yourself and life.” Making the best version of yourself makes you forget the person you love the most, because at the end of the day, he will realize that you are actually strong and knows how to stand up on your own without him in your life. You are here in this world to grow and evolve and be the best version of yourself, do not let yourself stuck on the person who doesn’t know your worth.

This is just a few things to ease the pain when you're heart is broken, and I know we have different ways on how we will able to overcome such pain! and when the pain goes away, I'm pretty sure that you will be so very proud of yourself for being so strong for getting through it. How about you? Where do your broken hearts go"?

Thank you so much Steemians for reading!

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!
Until my next Blog!

Much Love and Respect,
@micch

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broken hearts can be mended and become strong again.. happy valentines day. :)

That is right yes all hou need to do is to stand up again and be strong 😘

Thank you for visiting @chinito..

Love,
@micch

Hehehe. Where do broken hearts go?
People who is not strong enough to endure the pain commit suicide or become totally lost his/her mind(nabuang na). Being broke is part of growing up, you are right Bratty it is one way to make our self better.

Agee dui! Mga couples yana, magkakagawas couples shirt,couple watch, couple shoes, tanan nga couple couple .hahaha. Pareho la kita yna wa ka date.

Happy Valentine's Day Bratty!
Love you xoxo

Thats right bratty, haha pero kay nakakabuang man liwat ako.. Wahahahaha kaya muntik ng mag commit hin suicide chus rah!

Balit uU bratty huhu kon dla ash wednesday dri ak tilakat, kay damu lan mga couples nga napaawa haak, and ako alone.. Pero okay lang, nakipag date man ak kan God.. Hehe

Happy Valentine's Day Bratty😘😘
Love you..

It would be nice to take medicine for a broken heart like how you can take medicine for a fever or headache!

Where do broken heart go....i know right @micch ...nice post👍
Lol i also have a blog about valentines you can check it out https://steemit.com/introduceyourself/@naijaberry/about-my-worst-valentines-day-ever-feb-14-2017

Haha don't worry I will check your post, @naijaberry.. Thank you for visiting my blog..

Love,
@micch

Oh, also... I like Whitney Houston, too, but one of my favorite love songs is an old Filipino one! Maybe I should get brave and post a video here of me singing it! It's "Kahit Maputi Na Ang Buhok Ko"

Yes please @nomadicsoul..i love that song :)

Where do broken hearts go?

For some, Down the drain. . .

You down the drain?? oh so sad.. but thats life, we really experience how painful love is.. But you should just feel the pain and let it heal, and wait til it hurts no more.

Thank you for visiting my blog @feedingfranzy!

Love,
@micch

Hi @micch, I totally agree with you kabayan. Marami ngayon sa mga kabataan na broken hearted lang tumatalon nalang bigla sa building. But the truth is, they really don't know what true love is.

Oh yes, tumatalon sila cause they don't have any outlet. They give all the love that they can give, wala na natira sa sarili nila.. They dont know their worth kaya nakakapag isip ng suicide.. Anyways thank you so much for dropping by @josephbuarao I appreciate it.

Keep steeming!

Love,
@micch

Where do broken heart go?.. @micch u tried with this post.. It happened to me last year..
https://steemit.com/steemchurch/@morakinyo/steemchurch-or-the-favoured-parents

I just saw your blog, and yeah.. there's is no one who really can comfort us except him..

Thats a nice post of yours @morakinyo..

Love,
@micch

Welcome @monakiryo..
Keep Steeming!

Wow hopefully nakatulong yun sayo @junebride ang ganda ganda ng sagada, hehe parang ginawa mung camp sawi e.. Hehe

un kasi themesong nong movie ni angelica na sa sagada shinoot.hehe

Haha, un pala un.. Akala ko ikaw talaga e..

I do believe to make the best version of ourselves. Very well-said friend. Sad girls are those who don't know how to fight a broken heart. However I am still doubtful to open up with another man after the rain maybe it takes many years because the trauma is there.

Thank you friend, yes i do belive also with your perception about opening your heart to somebody else, because definitely that very moment you will think that boys are all the same.. Hehe, thank you for the comment dear. i do appreciate it..

Xoxo

I say, FRIENDS!

Wow thats great..

Be a better version of me. :) I also have had a sad story abt love. This day reminds me of something so I wrote few posts abt it. Thank for your sharing :)

Wow I strongy agree with you dear.. Thank you for visiting my blog.. I will check it out, and read the your story..

Keep steeming!
Love,
@micch

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