they're not necessarily mutually exclusive. At least not the specific statements above.

Fyrst says
: we should meet up when youre in peru you can be on my show.

heidi says something non comittal or maybe positive like "sure ill give you a call"

then heidi mentions she was in peru (and never called). Now fyrst is upset becasue he realizes hes been blown off.

Fyrst gets pissed then embellishes a story about a camera crew to make himself look more like an aggrieved party.

I've never bought the camera crew story to begin with. Because he does a radio show, right? I mean he already has the crew there, and allegedly an audience of 200, 000 and he's enough of a performer/talker to do a show solo. Does he really send them home or does he make an actual show by himself (talking trash on heidi for not showing up).

All that said, from this perspective, it sounds super creepy.