I would suggest rather than giving up, work on learning how to constructively argue your position. There are a couple of things I don't understand in your post. How does a person downvote? (I'm new and only seen upvoting or no vote)... and why does it matter if a person wants to set their personna to being a woman? It's up to them. Heck, being a woman myself, I have found that greater credibility often comes with being perceived to be a guy... so the argument cuts both ways I guess.