EVERY FRUSTRATED STEEMIT MINNOW NEEDS TO READ THIS POST!!!

in #steemit7 years ago (edited)

People are rewarded in public for things that they practiced for years in private, when nobody was watching

I recall one time hearing an Olympic runner being interviewed and he asked if he was nervous about the race. His response blew me away and really made me look at competition and challenging yourself in a much different way. He said he doesn't get nervous for races because the races are the easy part. The races are the exhibition. It's easy to be pumped and motivated when your friends and family are there and when you have an entire country cheering you on. The tough part is getting up for those training sessions at 4am or 5am in the morning when nobody else is around, when you don't want to wake up, when the competition is months away. Those are the though times. That's when the grinding is happening, that's when the hard work is being put in, the race is the exhibition or the celebration of all that work so there's no reason to be nervous. It's kind of like the old saying about the war already being won or lost before anyone even steps on the battle field.

As you can probably tell by my posts I'm into a lot of self improvement type stuff, being the best person you can be. I wish I could find the video as it won't be nearly as eloquent comming from me but I remember hearing another one basically asking the question, would you write if nobody were to ever read what you've written?

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It kind of goes along with the old story of the lion and the gazelle. I'll put the video below so you can check it out for yourself but essentially the message is this, a gazelle wakes up every morning knowing it has to outrun the lions who will be hunting it later in the day. As soon as a gazelle sees or smells a lion it runs, however as soon as the lion stops chasing it, the gazelle stops running. The gazelle is only motivated by external factors.

So what does this have to do with Steemit, or whatever goals you have for yourself? You need to grind for the sheer sake of grinding, not because someone is patting you on the back, not because you have a goal, but because that's what you do, you hustle and you grind because that's what you do and that's who you are.

So again, what the heck does this have to do with Steemit. I see lots of people who chose to join this platform, and then want to quit because their posts aren't getting as many upvotes as they would like or because they aren't earning as much money as they would like.

The times before your account takes off and gains Steem, pardon the pun, is similar to the time that Olympian is training in the early mornings when nobody is around. There's no coach telling you that you have to run, there's no crowd cheering your name, but can you force yourself to continue to grind and stay motivated and pump out content even when it feels like your not being noticed?

If you can't figure out how to grind even when no rewards are comming and even when it feels like nobody is paying any attention to what your doing, then you don't deserve to make it big on Steemit or to reach any other goal you have for that matter. Don't be a goal grinder, learn to grind because your a bad motherfucker and that's what bad motherfuckers do. BE THE LION!!!

The time right now, when it feels like your account is never going to take off, this is the time more than ever you need to stay focused, stay commited, and keep doing your thing. Eventually your time will come and because of this you will be prepared.

Stay grinding my fellow Steemians!!!

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One last thing I wanted to add about the whales of this platform. I know a lot of people are jealous and or whine about the whales but guess what, the whales went through this very thing I'm talking about. Back before most people knew what the hell Steemit was the whales were grinding on here with no certainty that it would ever grow bigger or turn into something. Back when the whales were earning Steem and/or buying Steem when it was worth pennies or whatever it was worth back then, they were hustling and grinding for no rewards or at least no certain rewards, but as things often do they worked out and that's why the whales are whales, because they were lions.

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Sometimes when I start slacking off a little bit I start thinking I might be 2% McBitch. Then I just grind that out and keep crunching away. Rarrrrrrrrr

Your comment made me think of an interesting point. I get lazy, I get unmotivated, and I slack just like everybody else.

I think sometimes we look at other people who we view as motivated and think they are just naturally that way, as if it comes easy to them. I think everyone faces the same challenges, battles the same uncertainty or laziness, even the Lebron James and the Eric Thomas's and the Tony Robbins, it's just that they refuse to accept defeat and like you said keep crunching away.

I think it's unrealistic to think that we'll never slack or never have lazy moments but I think the key is to avoid them as much as possible and to do our best to snap out of it and keep chugging along.

Yeah it isn't easy and it would be easier to quit at most things. I refuse to have anything but an extra ordinary life. The scariest thing for me is to have a normal life.

This is me in business and scooping up those crypto coins! Rarrrr!!!!

This is great advice. It is easy to look at the blog rewards of the Whales and feel jealous. They however have worked to get their reputation and i'm sure haven't always got it right. There seems to be a lot more posts popping up that don't have any personal effort applied to them, and it's easy to fall int the habit of just reposting something that you find on you tube. I think you have to be motivated to make an impact and be prepared to put in a little bit of work. I don't always write the best posts, but am quickly learning that laziness doesn't pay off. The Whales do post great content, and I am in awe of some of their skills..........

More great advice, R for R. I don't know who these people are and haven't seen them around. I am in for the long haul and in fact my whole life right now is about sowing seeds with blind faith in the future. I can see you've already taken off bigtime on here and I'm not surprised all of your great content and your inspirational attitude would be a big hit on Steemit. As I get more into crypto and all of my little side hustle projects I'm going to blog about them here.

Hey buddy, love the comment, I think you hit the nail on the head with blind faith. There's no gurantee Steemit will take off and be something huge and it's very possible by the time that you or I eventually become whales maybe this site folds or Steem is at a penny, nobody knows but I'm willing to invest some time and effort and gamble that this is going to turn into something huge and even if it doesn't it's not like we've lost. We've learend a lot more about blockchain technology and the web 3.0 which I'm sure will help us down the road as that's the direction things are going, we've become better writers, we've built up a bunch of content we can post elsewhere, I don't really see us losing out even if steemit doesn't get big for us.

looking forward to some of your posts about side hustles and stuff. what kinda stuff are you into?

Thanks so much! I totally agree. I've learned more about cryptocurrencies since joining Steemit than I'd ever known before and now I have so many resources to learn from that I know I'm going to be able to get really into this.

I've been working for affiliate marketing companies for the past 15 years - not doing my own affiliate marketing, but earning a salary and commission from selling marketing services. The irony is I have little practice doing any of it myself. But my friend and I are working on some campaigns now on the side for the first time, learning media buying and building our own sites. It's going pretty slowly but it's a long term play so again it's like planting seeds. I also asked him to join me in my Merch account (if it ever gets approved lol) and we've come up with around 7 designs now. We mocked them up ourselves using Canva and we're going to pay a designer to just polish up the layouts and make them better designs.

I've considered all sorts of different business ideas, though I have no clue how to do them. I am just exploring one or two ideas at a time. Another friend drives for Uber and we talked about starting an Uber fleet. My main worry for that is where the heck to park the cars in NYC if we lose a driver!

I have ideas about theme restaurants or preferably, private dining clubs, but I think that one's a bit too far out of my reach for right now. It's a brutal business (my cousin owned a restaurant in Manhattan for many years). But someday I might start a club as more of a hobby and see what happens. I'd like to have a dining club where we recreate menus that were served in the 1800s, like published menus from famous occasions and/or from early cruise ships. I would work with hunters and farmers from a local radius to get game animals as that was a larger part of people's dining tables in the 1800s. If things got really crazy and I had the wherewithal, I'd love to have this in an old mansion with some acreage around it maybe in Upstate New York and have the guests park their cars in a lot that is hidden from the main approach to the mansion. They would follow a path around a row of trees and come out onto a large open drive area in front of the mansion where they would be picked up in a horse drawn carriage and driven around to the front entrance.

I was an artist as a kid - all I did was draw and paint. I stopped doing it a long time ago and I'd really like to get back to that.

Thanks again for your positive attitude on here. I'm willing to put a lot more into Steemit and we shall all see what comes out of it

I would agree with you Rebel, but most of the whales on here are either famous, have tits, or bought there way to the top, so I don't know about your advice here.

I am following you closely, because you're the most stubborn person I know on here. If you stop blogging, I know this isn't a place where extremely motivated people, no matter how passionate they may be might still not make a dent here on this platform.

Another serious flaw of this platform is that your content is dead after 7 days, and there is 100% no incentive for people to interact with content that is older than 7 days, plus Steemit stores it away forever after that, and it is essentially no longer yours. You can't edit it, you can't delete it, you can't even update it... it's just dead.

If I were you, I would treat this like Twitter. Only post time-sensitive material on here, like news and updates, and if you do post anything evergreen, make sure to add affiliate links or links back to your own properties as well mate. Oh, and post mostly blockchain related content too... they eat that shit up on here.

Hey buddy, thanks for the post you bring up some legit points. In terms of whales who bought their way into power. I do see a lot of them as when I look at SteemitWhales I see people with tons of Steem Power who have made few to no posts or who have low reputation scores I'm guessing because they purchased rather than earned their Steem but I don't really see a problem with that, or at least I can't knock them because they had the foresight to buy in early when Steem was cheap in the same way alot of smart people bought Bitcoin back when it was worth pennies.

I do totally agree with you about the 7 day thing. Is that 100% true you don't earn after 7 days? As with a lot of things on Steemit oftentimes it seems like nobody on here even more experienced guys know 100% sure how things work lol. That said I have also heard the 7 day thing and even made a post about it. That does really bother me as I'm all about recurring passive income or things which you can do one time and which will continue to earn and the way Steemit is setup pretty much as soon as you take a break or stop posting you have a trickle of income for 7 days and then nothing so I definately feel you there.

I don't really like that policy myself but just to play devils advocate it does keep someone from being able to upload their entire Youtube catalog of 500 or 1000 videos and then just abandon the platform so I think that is maybe the one good reason I can see for having a policy like that.

This site is still a baby it could become something huge or could become a big flop though it does seem like we're getting a lot of new users on here evereyday, I think I recently heard 12k new accounts per week.

My reasons for being on here are this. I'm enjoying the platform but also enjoy the ability to potentially make money on here. Another reason I'm really active on here is on my YOutube channel when I talk about entrepreneurship or ecommerce I think a lot of people are kinda like easy for you to say you already have this business built up and these systems in place.

I think Steemit, and also Amazon Merch for that matter are two things where I lack experience and skills and where any of my past work isn't really going to benefit me much so I'm on a level playing field with my Youtube audience. I want to kind of inspire them that I can start from the bottom and build somehting up right before their eyes and basically say see if I can do this there's no reason you can't start a successful shopify store or fba business or consulting business or whatever else.

This is so fucking true it gives me the chills. Motivating words in deed, @rulesforrebels. Thank you so much. As a rookie here in Steemit, and a spanish speaker with a no so big audience, your words means a lot. Keep it coming!

"Learn to grind because you're a bad mutha fckr!!!" ♥ that man.... Glad to see U on here. I used to watch your old YT vids. #Props!

You write because you want to share a story, your story, an insight or a tip... basically it is your value you want to share. If someone likes it, they'll comment, upvote or resteem, or all 3. But that is not why you are sharing, you want to give...because those who embrace personal development, KNOW it is all about giving. Those who don't give, will never receive either.

True words man. Doing something just for the sake of the goal is not productive and it keeps people ignorant to the fact that life only exists in the present moment. Doing something for a goal is basically a constant message that you are not good enough and stems from a "lack" or "poverty" mindset. It is important that people do things that make them feel accomplished in this moment. Not because one day you might attain something.

Do things because you want to. That is the secret to planting good "seeds" that could turn into something amazing.

Great comment kenan so true

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@rulesforrebels once again your content doesn´t dissapoint me whether is on youtube or steemit. True people are absolutly wrong if they take Steemit as the new Facebook or Instagram...where the content is pretty superficial in many cases and banal. Here well elaborated posts are given credit and not any nosense is viral, besides being an early adopter will give you an avantage to be ahead of the pack, otherwise the only way up is digging and digging...

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