It was like being told at 14 to believe in the Lord. Accept him as Lord and personal saviour. That done. Next love the brethren especially men and women members of the household. Thats a way of life for Christians ( born agains) You found joy doing it till one day a trusted brother stole your money fom you room. Forgiven! Yes,but cant afford not to remember. God's grace plays out here as if it did not happen but I have to be wise.