The 4 Ways To Rise Above When You Are A Target Of Online Lashings

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Got any pearls of wisdom for a beautiful soul whose clan tossed her to the wolves at the first hint of unsavory choices? Oh wait...The Wolves...
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The wolves! 💡Aha!💡

I didn’t get tossed to the wolves in fact... the wolves turned out to be the pack I had been running with - and they tossed me back to the safety of the rest of the living and breathing!

☁️🧡❤️💛💚🌤💜💙💜🌤💚💛🧡❤️☁️
In the face of the saddest abandonment I have ever endured, I am discovering some fascinatig techniques for coping and responding to attacks.

Here are the top 4 methods of staying afloat in troubled waters

1. Resist the urge to argue the minor details!

⚠️You will be tempted to argue the point on many silly details that will not add up on both sides. Just let them slide. They want to nail your coffin shut and details are one way to get tempers flaring and troubles brewing. Who cares if it was Tuesday and not Wednesday? Pick your battles, great soldier.
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2. Be yourself - make a joke with a hint of reality.

⚠️ The reason for this is not so much for your benefit as it is for your followers. Show them that you are aware of the negative stuff without giving it any more hype than needed. I tweeted this after an awkward silence when the hate-campaign started against me.
https://twitter.com/theloribrown/status/978793867511087105?s=21
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3. Use the circumstance as fuel for the vehicle that will upgrade your life!

Boom! Smear my Name? Ok, let’s just see how much I can prove that my name will not be forced in a downward spiral. Nope!
⚠️This won’t break me, it will MAKE me!
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4. Never let the mob convince you of something that isn’t true.

⚠️If it isn’t right, don’t give in on your truth. You won’t need to spew hatred like some angry mob members do so easily, but you are who you are. Just because they don’t like what you have done or where you were seen or whatever - doesn’t make anyone better than you. Don’t doubt your value as a human. They are polluted with anger and low vibrations. Poison comes in many forms - don’t let your beautiful world go dim in the wreckage of targeted harassment.
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If things get too personal or if you feel threatened or unsafe, don’t be afraid to get help from Law Enforcement, bosses, or other authorities. They threw you under the bus! Protect your own.

Also I like the block buttons, mute buttons, report tools and yes, even flags.
Why not? If they are out to cause you harm then you are justified in taking action. Be strong. Be beautiful (or the masculine counterpart for guys)

One last thing. There is no amount of approval worth your spiritual well being. They lost you, and that is a void they will not be fortunate for having. Duh!

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Also: no matter what***

No matter how depressing it all is****

Do not commit suicide! No matter what! We will make it! Watch! 🌈⭐️🌈⭐️🌈⭐️🌈⭐️🌈⭐️

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Reminds me of some of the conversations I've had with my 9-year-old daughter who doesn't handle putdowns very well sometimes, especially by her sister. I know the scenario is different, but you phrased the advice very well. I think I'm going to steal your ideas and share them with her.

glad to meet you again my friend @lorilikes. This is good tips of you👍
👉The 4 Ways To Rise Above When You Are A Target Of Online Lashings👈 and this will work perfectly because it based on your own experience. you still can survive and 💪 enough to stand up after facing the tremendous storm. and now you come to help others with your motivation tips. thanks for sharing my friend. have a nice day always.

Who cares if it was Tuesday and not Wednesday? Choose your battles, great soldier.

I love this, arguing about irrelevant things is very common, you spend energy, you get full of negative charges and?? there's nothing left to be gained

The fact that they don't like what you've done or where they saw you or whatever, doesn't make anyone better than you. Don't doubt your value as a human being

can be explained better?? I doubt it!!!
We don't have to convince anyone of anything, time is a great ally at that point and we go to an important point, tolerance is nil in some people and they are closed in on their own things...

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           **Woman of your dreams**  

Thanks gor sharing

** the top 4 methods of staying afloat in troubled waters**

  1. Resist the urge to argue the minor details!
  1. Be yourself - make a joke with a hint of reality.
  1. Use the circumstance as fuel for the vehicle that will upgrade your life!
  1. Never let the mob convince you of something that isn’t true.

PERFECT @lorilikes
When we become cork when all floats feel light, the load will disappear
But I will add a little bit as much as I can in facing the problem.

Life is like a piano. It's white and black. However, when God plays it, Everything becomes beautiful. Smile is able to solve many problems, and silence is able to make us avoid many problems.

It is difficult to be patient and mengikhlaskan something let alone we have to give up the happiness that we feel. loss of work, family, and loved ones is enough to make life miserable. but remember, God will not give a trial beyond the ability of the people,

Thanks for this @lorilikes

yeah! to the discuss of today, i"m happy with a term you used, " a SINCERE approach to success and failure".

I've read countless books on this topic, but then, a lot amongst them are unpractical, unrealistic and unsincere. sometimes, i'm thinking the authors are just profit oriented and not good-feedbacks oriented. But then i'm anticipating when yours would come out. Please inform us.

and by the way, i love your practicality.

I'm a huge fan already. lol

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Thank you for the great feedback. I try. 🌈⭐️

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This is pretty good, keep it up

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Pardon me, I guess I'm digressing a bit. But you are really a pretty woman.
Pretty on the outside, strong on the inside.. Great combo if you ask me.. Hahaha

And a cute puppy you have there.

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Thank you, so much. 🦋✨

Hahaha...Tirade of Trolls- a lovely alliteration! As others have commented, I only wish people gave enough of a shit to troll me :)

You're intelligent with a great and supportive partner, I think you'll come out on top on this one.

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✨🌈 my ending was catchy too right? Lol

Nicely said and done!!!
But I think it takes a lot of self control and self belief...
And you are right...
There is always resistance when you move up the ranks e.g. "a rocket faces many resistances like gravity and air sheer, while rising up but eventually all the opposing forces fade away"
So keep moving @lorilikes like a rocket!!!

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That was a sweet metaphor. Yes, I like it!!

Great ideas and solution to float on surface during trouble. Yes avoid the minor details and don't listen to others conspiracy. Let them do what they want. Haters are always there because they are already below you. Keep up your good work, keep rocking, keep going exactly like this, nothing to bother about and keep smiling.

hello @lorilikes how are you.
I'm proud of you for rising above noise and bullshit. It's not easy because standing up and demanding attention, but you'll be better just to ignore it. You have a lot of wisdom to deal with difficult situations in this post. It is real and meaningful.

Again, I'm sorry you'll get through it, but you're right, you'll get better because it has passed through. You may not be able to see it now, but it will happen in the process going forward. at start small people and envy trying to tear people down so they can feel better about themselves. in because do not want a business, and different from you take a high risk. It's not easy, of course it's your attitude. and you must be better than that. because you are versatile. thanks from @ adnan-mp for @lorilikes.

No matter how many time I hit refresh, your second picture will not load. I even tried on Busy and Steemit. Still nothing. That's ok. I won't let it get me down.

I'm proud of you for rising above the noise and the nonsense. It's not easy because it stands up and demands to be noticed, but you're going to be better off just ignoring it. You have a lot of wisdom for dealing with tough situations in these posts. It's real and it's meaningful.

Again, I'm sorry you're going through it, but you're right, you're going to be better as a result of having gone through it. You might not be able to see it now, but it's going to happen. Small people try to tear others down so they can feel better about themselves. You're taking the high road. It's not easy, but it's who you are. You're better than that. :)

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Thank you so much for being solid and a true friend to me. I appreciate you! 🌈⭐️

Oh wow Lori! You are one brave and beautiful soul. I don't know what it is about human nature that so many of us would jump at the first opportunity to hurt those we think are most gentle and sensitive. I like your approach to the situation, I don't think I could handle it better than you are handling it. I can only hope to be as strong and witty as you are in the times of trouble like these. I recently heard someone say: "When you are going through hell. Keep going!".
xx Lucy

Oh Yeah! Lori is making it. You confessed it because you believe it. Great!. Joy,Joy. One more thing. If you believe in your creator who we call GOD. I believe you do. He said in his word, "Call upon me in the days of trouble; I will answer you and you will glorify my name". He is the almighty. The Rock mightier than any other. Talk to him on any issues. It is called prayer. It works. He knows how to calm the storms of life. Believe this.

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The last point is what I think everyone has gone or going through. Peer pressure to do something even if it seems wrong is always difficult to handle when thinking about the circumstances. What I do know is people how are ethically and morally good will have enough courage to go against the mass. Those people usually are remembered forever. Thanks.

You've already won. They are the ones who lost. They are afraid of the greatness you have. Why else would they want to bring you down and destroy you? Try as they might they cannot. Those would be the same approaches I would do.

  1. Resist the urge to argue the minor details!

⚠️You will be tempted to argue the point on many silly details that will not add up on both sides. Just let them slide.

The last comment, "let them slide". A lot of things doesn't deserve replies. I love you and I love your messages @lorilikes

halo wow @lorilikes is well said and done and the reality in the field is very easy to say and very difficult to be taken care of.
But I think it requires a lot of self-control and self-confidence ...
like you said it's true to fight the system is hard, but to justify a system that is not right from the rules, we must move whatever risk we will face for the truth.
and by itself the robot or the person managing the system will realize that what we are doing is right.
and this we have to pass through various obstacles ...
I am proud of you for rising above noise and nonsense. It's not easy because standing up and demanding attention, but you'd be better just to ignore it. You have a lot of wisdom to deal with difficult situations in posts to achieve victory for the team you form.
and I am sure that you are doing more mature preparation that you do
because It's not easy to fight the system for the common good, of course it's your very professional attitude. and @boile sure that everyone will be thumbs up for you, happy activity and fun.

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What was the most Amzing part about it? I'm just curious.

Poison comes in many forms don’t let your beautiful world go dim in the wreckage of targeted harassment.

Wow! This are few words that means a lot.

Poison in many ways. I can actually relate..

#Truth

@lorilikes, this is simply amazing..

Here are the top 4 methods of staying afloat in troubled waters

I'm hoping I could get all this scrips and put them together.

A lot of people are going through tough times and depressing moments and would need this beautiful and amazing words.

@lorilikes, I'm a big fan and I can't wait to get a hold of your book..

@lorilikes I agree with you . Especially the point "resisted the desire to discuss small details" I found many difficulties because I cared for the simplest things and I was always sad to read some subjects about psychological comfort. And now I feel a lot better. Thank you for your post.
Restem your post ♡

Nice amazing your post @lorilikes i gree.

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Which part was the nicest? I'd like to know. :)