The 4 Ways To Rise Above When You Are A Target Of Online Lashings
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Got any pearls of wisdom for a beautiful soul whose clan tossed her to the wolves at the first hint of unsavory choices? Oh wait...The Wolves...
The wolves! 💡Aha!💡
I didn’t get tossed to the wolves in fact... the wolves turned out to be the pack I had been running with - and they tossed me back to the safety of the rest of the living and breathing!
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In the face of the saddest abandonment I have ever endured, I am discovering some fascinatig techniques for coping and responding to attacks.
Here are the top 4 methods of staying afloat in troubled waters
1. Resist the urge to argue the minor details!
⚠️You will be tempted to argue the point on many silly details that will not add up on both sides. Just let them slide. They want to nail your coffin shut and details are one way to get tempers flaring and troubles brewing. Who cares if it was Tuesday and not Wednesday? Pick your battles, great soldier.
2. Be yourself - make a joke with a hint of reality.
⚠️ The reason for this is not so much for your benefit as it is for your followers. Show them that you are aware of the negative stuff without giving it any more hype than needed. I tweeted this after an awkward silence when the hate-campaign started against me.
https://twitter.com/theloribrown/status/978793867511087105?s=21
3. Use the circumstance as fuel for the vehicle that will upgrade your life!
Boom! Smear my Name? Ok, let’s just see how much I can prove that my name will not be forced in a downward spiral. Nope!
⚠️This won’t break me, it will MAKE me!
4. Never let the mob convince you of something that isn’t true.
⚠️If it isn’t right, don’t give in on your truth. You won’t need to spew hatred like some angry mob members do so easily, but you are who you are. Just because they don’t like what you have done or where you were seen or whatever - doesn’t make anyone better than you. Don’t doubt your value as a human. They are polluted with anger and low vibrations. Poison comes in many forms - don’t let your beautiful world go dim in the wreckage of targeted harassment.
If things get too personal or if you feel threatened or unsafe, don’t be afraid to get help from Law Enforcement, bosses, or other authorities. They threw you under the bus! Protect your own.
Also I like the block buttons, mute buttons, report tools and yes, even flags.
Why not? If they are out to cause you harm then you are justified in taking action. Be strong. Be beautiful (or the masculine counterpart for guys)
One last thing. There is no amount of approval worth your spiritual well being. They lost you, and that is a void they will not be fortunate for having. Duh!
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Reminds me of some of the conversations I've had with my 9-year-old daughter who doesn't handle putdowns very well sometimes, especially by her sister. I know the scenario is different, but you phrased the advice very well. I think I'm going to steal your ideas and share them with her.
glad to meet you again my friend @lorilikes. This is good tips of you👍
👉The 4 Ways To Rise Above When You Are A Target Of Online Lashings👈 and this will work perfectly because it based on your own experience. you still can survive and 💪 enough to stand up after facing the tremendous storm. and now you come to help others with your motivation tips. thanks for sharing my friend. have a nice day always.
I love this, arguing about irrelevant things is very common, you spend energy, you get full of negative charges and?? there's nothing left to be gained
can be explained better?? I doubt it!!!
We don't have to convince anyone of anything, time is a great ally at that point and we go to an important point, tolerance is nil in some people and they are closed in on their own things...
Thanks gor sharing
** the top 4 methods of staying afloat in troubled waters**
PERFECT @lorilikes
When we become cork when all floats feel light, the load will disappear
But I will add a little bit as much as I can in facing the problem.
Life is like a piano. It's white and black. However, when God plays it, Everything becomes beautiful. Smile is able to solve many problems, and silence is able to make us avoid many problems.
Thanks for this @lorilikes
yeah! to the discuss of today, i"m happy with a term you used, " a SINCERE approach to success and failure".
I've read countless books on this topic, but then, a lot amongst them are unpractical, unrealistic and unsincere. sometimes, i'm thinking the authors are just profit oriented and not good-feedbacks oriented. But then i'm anticipating when yours would come out. Please inform us.
and by the way, i love your practicality.
I'm a huge fan already. lol
Thank you for the great feedback. I try. 🌈⭐️
This is pretty good, keep it up
Pardon me, I guess I'm digressing a bit. But you are really a pretty woman.
Pretty on the outside, strong on the inside.. Great combo if you ask me.. Hahaha
And a cute puppy you have there.
Thank you, so much. 🦋✨
Hahaha...Tirade of Trolls- a lovely alliteration! As others have commented, I only wish people gave enough of a shit to troll me :)
You're intelligent with a great and supportive partner, I think you'll come out on top on this one.
✨🌈 my ending was catchy too right? Lol
Nicely said and done!!!
But I think it takes a lot of self control and self belief...
And you are right...
There is always resistance when you move up the ranks e.g. "a rocket faces many resistances like gravity and air sheer, while rising up but eventually all the opposing forces fade away"
So keep moving @lorilikes like a rocket!!!
That was a sweet metaphor. Yes, I like it!!
Great ideas and solution to float on surface during trouble. Yes avoid the minor details and don't listen to others conspiracy. Let them do what they want. Haters are always there because they are already below you. Keep up your good work, keep rocking, keep going exactly like this, nothing to bother about and keep smiling.
hello @lorilikes how are you.
I'm proud of you for rising above noise and bullshit. It's not easy because standing up and demanding attention, but you'll be better just to ignore it. You have a lot of wisdom to deal with difficult situations in this post. It is real and meaningful.
Again, I'm sorry you'll get through it, but you're right, you'll get better because it has passed through. You may not be able to see it now, but it will happen in the process going forward. at start small people and envy trying to tear people down so they can feel better about themselves. in because do not want a business, and different from you take a high risk. It's not easy, of course it's your attitude. and you must be better than that. because you are versatile. thanks from @ adnan-mp for @lorilikes.