What Does It Mean To Lose Someone?
What Does It Mean To Lose Someone? Isn't this a great Topic to know?
Well, I know some of you have gone through a similar experience of losing someone, whether is through death or the break of friendships or relationships.
In my experience, I've lost people that I've loved very much and has been very difficult to recover from that. At the moment you lose someone you love, there is not really a pill you can take for that pain to go away.
It is a pain that cannot be described and almost no one can make you feel better unless they have gone through it as well and can just hug you and provide that energy of understanding and love.
When it comes to death, where you can not longer see that person in this particular life time, it has been very difficult and I know I'm not alone with that.
I lost my mother with the battle of Cancer in 2011 and I can tell you that the pain has never gone away, but I have been able to manage it throughout the time. I'm sure some people are able to recover better, but other actually never do recover at all.
This where joining nature, meditating, educating yourself works to deal with these issues that a lot of people have.
The biggest problem people have is "LETTING GO". People are attached to the love one and they do regret everything they did or didn't do and CANNOT forgive themselves. I believe that's the hardest feeling ever, "forgiving yourself".
My best advised to let go and forgive yourself (if you have to) is to know that person has not really gone away and is still near you. Know that you will see that person again at some point of time and move on with your life the best way you can. I'm not an expert, but this helps to survive with the bad feelings.
Hope this one a little useful for all of you guys.
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Having something and losing it, it's so much crueler than never having had it.
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Its is always painfull recently i have lost my uncle and g mom so i know how it feels :(
My condolences to you. It's not an easy feeling
agree with you :)
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Can't be express with words, only the suffer can feel the deepness of the grief. But time and tides waits for none, so we have to adjust ourselves in every way possible. This is life friends, don't worry friend you have lots of good people with you now in this community, who love you so much. Please take care of yourself in every way possible. God bless you my friend.
very meaningful, thank you my friend
{{Big hugs}} I'm sorry you lost your mother. I can't even go there. I have lost friends to death to imclude two very close friends. This time of year isn't easy. One of them has a birthday in 5 days, the other passed away in 2003 in December 8 days from now. Not easy. Hang in there!!
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Thank you for the understanding my friend. Life goes on and we all have to move on with it.
i feel sad to know about your mom don't be sad she will remain in your heart and her blessing will follow you everywhere no matter where you are what you going through life is the journey some may come some may go it's truth of life we need to accept it ... But love and effection is the chain what connect us ,no life ,death or distance can separate the love once ☺
Thank you for your wishes. No sad anymore, just sometimes during the year. Over the years i have been dealing with it. Time usually heals :)
Yes time is the best healer ..... its life sometimes happiness sometimes sadness
Wish you better and happier life ahead😊😊
Feeling sad for you i know it,s hard to lose someone
But if someone loses her mother then it really really hearts
i don,t have words to explain how much it hearts.
recently my aunt died which i love most and i can,t even stop crying for weeks.
but now one think is for you to forget your pain and move on. if you forget the pain then it will be easy for you to move on either it will heart you everyday.
Very true. Pain is the one holding us down. It gets easier over time.
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Totally appreciated my friend!
I can truly relate to your post. I feel you @javybar! I can't describe how I am feeling right now with just a thought of not having my mom with me in my life. 😢
It is really too much difficult to let go of someone who is everything for you, who gave you birth, who do so much for our happiness. I admit that I have a very strong attachment with my mom...
You are very strong @javybar. Thank you so much for sharing your life experiece with us.
thank you! It is a pleasure to bring some conciseness to avoid taking anyone for granted. We are all here today, not sure tomorrow. Blessings for you.
Yeah, so true. You're welcome @javybar! ☺
u r nice person @javybar i always read your post n also pray for your mother.
thank you very much! Good vibes are going back to you :)