If the shoe fits, wear it!

When you feel the need to work on one work it, when you feel the need to work on the other, then do so!

You call the shots!

Don't stress out over either, life is too short, enjoy life and make both of these things in life become something that fulfills your time on this earth, don't turn them into "burdens"!

That is all I can say... and yes, I wish I had listened to that advice in the past, but unfortunately no body gave it to me and even if they did, who knows would I have listened....

Now.... well, I guess time has made me learn a thing or two... not enough, just a thing or two!

;)