Hi mate, thanks for your kind words...

I don't know if I have many lessons I guess, just write what you're passionate about and are interested in. Write well from a punctuation and spelling perspective and then engage with validity with others. Some throw useless comments all over the place thinking it's engagement however I prefer a few well-placed comments and votes here and there on a user to get their attention and then see how they interact with me. If they do then it moves forward if they don't then I move on.

There's no magic wand I guess but relationships will take a user further I think.