#STEEMGIGS: Steemgigs TIL ChallengeContest Entry-3 : Lesson Of This Morning

Here I come with one more TIL (Today I Learned) contest entry by @jalasem. There is a no end of learning and we learn almost everyday as I have said this in my immediate last TIL post. Now here I'm going to share another lesson of my day on @steemgigs or on steemit, read more ..............!!!!!

These days I'm working as a consultant with a site where I answer and suggest people the appropriate things would be better for them. This morning I got a call from a client who has a problem with her relationship. She is actually confuse about her relationship as her boy friend do not giving enough time to her. But she has a friend who cares about her so she was asking, if she go for friend and avoid boy friend that will be ok or not even she asked if she cheat how would be that? So I suggest her not to cheat and make a open discussion with boy friend and try to understand him.

And many suggestion I gave and at the end she thank me.

Now you friends may ask me what I learned from this conversation , right? Yup, I'm going to tell you that now. Every relationship need priority, love, attention and affection. So here I learned we should give enough time to our relationship and make it special. Without time and attention we can lost a very lovable person from our life.

In a relationship time is the best gift for a partner and if we can't afford time we at least never let them understand that we are ignoring just we need to make them understand they are our priority and if we are busy with official or professional work it just because of our better tomorrow. After marriage most of the couple have this kind of objection, women get busy with household works and men get busy with their profession and the moment they expect almost time missing somehow, in this case we should understand not complain each other.

This was my lesson today, I also told my client that trust is important if she suspect her partner then there is no reason to continue. In a relationship patience is very important and also may need to do compromise and sacrifice. But nothing is one sided, a mutual contribution can help to run a long time relationships. If mutual understanding is loyal then the relationship may last forever. But both partner need to be loyal to each other.

Spending good time together is the best for a healthy relationship and most of the long lasting relationships are following this formula. Watching movie together, walk together, chit chat and making fun could make lots of special moment and memories too.So give your partner most precious thing and that is you time and attention.

Thanks for reading :)

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