The Bible says in Gen 2vs24....

Therefore, shall man leave his father and his mother, therefore cleave with his wife and they shall become one flesh

This is God's plan, not meeting yourselves at the back of the fence every night.There is a saying which says...

The good way is not always the right way, while the right way will always be good.

So, let's take our time to take the the right way, God help us.