Woman a blow will take it to another stronger one. You have not been born for this.

in #steemchurch5 years ago

We are clear that violence within the family is a serious problem today.
To love is not to manipulate the other, it is not to isolate it, it is not to make you feel as if your ideas, actions are erroneous and have no value.

To love is to strive every day to see a smile on the face of the loved one, to love is to listen to their ideas and opinions because for you, they have the same value as yours, to love is to respect, is to value, is to encourage, is to advance together in the life and ensure that nothing breaks with that love.

But today the concept of love has been devalued, nowadays they call love to anything, but when love truly arrives at its door this generation is incapable of recognizing it.

Today, young women think, that love is to deliver their purity or to sleep with someone, to show them that they love him, today, young women think, that loving is being the number 1 woman of 5 that he has. Today, young women think, that while the man treats them with more rudeness and more jealousy they demonstrate, it is because the love they live is real. Lamentably, what they live is not true love, but a bad mirage, in which many have fallen.

Please understand if he loves you he will not hurt you. If he loves you, he will seek to make you the happiest woman and treat you with respect, value you and treat you with kindness and tenderness; because he loves you

Unfortunately, many have already been prey to what I call the illusion of love, where man wants to isolate, manipulate and beat the woman he supposedly loves, where the relationship is full of sick jealousy caused by his own imagination and the blows arrive without reason.

How sad!! woman, your parents did not raise you so that you would let yourself do something like that, flee from domestic violence, denounce so that it does not continue to grow.

And then you hear the typical: you provoked me, it was your fault, if you had not done or said, nothing would have happened to you.
And we see women who ask for forgiveness for things they did not even do, this is not life, it's about pure survival, until when? until one day he decides that he does not want to see you anymore and decides to eliminate you.

We also see men who say: I swear this was the last time, I will never hit you again I swear I love you, forgive me, come back with me.
But at the minimum carelessness, it breaks its promise and the beating is May than the previous one.

Imagine if they have children, when they came to this world all happiness, but the first attack of jealousy the first thing they say is: this child is not mine, with whom did you have it? It does not even look like me, and the cries, insults and blows begin because of imaginary jealousy.

Woman, this is what you want for your life and your family? because you may have lived a similar childhood and that is why your confusion of what love really is, but you are wrong, this is not love, this is humiliation, it is something tragic, something that no woman should endure.

Flee this life for the good of you and your children if you have them. Heal your wounds, seek help, but do not stay living in this terrible situation because sooner or later you will regret it.

Do not wait until it's too late and your family and friends, all your children, have to take flowers, but this time not to the hospital, but to the grave. Have the courage to run, what you have, is not love.

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