Greetings to you all, I will continue from where I stopped in the last episode, if you are interested in the last episode you can read it by clicking here

Let us mention some of the things we need to accept about our spouses.

1 accept masculinity or femininity of your spouses ( accept their maleness or femaleness of your spouse)

It looks simple but it not as easy as that,in (1 peter 3:7) Peter the apostle who was recorded to have been married said "Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered".

Peter said dwell with them with understanding, I know some people husband/wife are not these days. Understand that your wife is a woman,deal with her the way she's,don't turn her into a man, relate with her properly, accept her the way she's.

If you are a man you have to accept few things about your wife,

you have to accept that your wife likes to talk

Some don't, let few don't talk but even though who don't talk talk to their husbands or if they don't talk on a normal day when they are angry they do. When they talk they like to go into details of event and issues, an average take as unnecessarily,sometimes a man regret asking a woman how was your day?

Men are headliners but you have to accept that because that is how they are wired, accept it sit down and enjoy the story and if you can't enjoy it, then endure it but let her talk, that's the way she's, their is no point getting frustrated, like I said in part 1 "when somebody don't allow you to be you the message you you get is rejection". And I can Imagine loads of woman have gotten that message from their husband because their is a way a man is looking at a woman when is taking and she can get the message. In fact the major part of communication sometimes is not with words,Let her be. Accept she likes to talk.

Accept your wife will query your love for her frequently

That's just the way she's, you need to be reminded ones in a while your wife is a woman, let her be, the way a woman is wired when she says in the wedding day I do and you say to her I do, it survives to the next morning, the case is not close, it an open ended case, she needs reassurance constantly, the man when he said I do, he does, it a closed case, you won't hear anything until the day he changes his mind.

For a woman is not at all, it an open case, everyday you need to say I do, again and again again, she always concern weather you still love her or not because of some of the behaviors, she is always wondering, unfortunately when she want to communicate it she won't communicate it like a man. All what she needs is just reassurance tell her you love her with a hug.

Accept the fact that your wife may need more time to dress up

You can help her, by reaching an agreement with her that she will get into the bath tub first, help her to start earlier. Just help her

accept the fact that she will need more clothes and bags than you

You must also prepare your mind for this , you accept this reality

accept the fact that your wife may not likely to be assertive about sex

Don't interpret that to mean that she's not interested in sex or that she's not as interested as you are, but may as likely to initiate it as you are.

Accept the fact that she won't be turned on like you

she is not a man,as a man you are easily tuned on, Man is virtually stimulated, a woman is not in the first place, she get ready when she feels loved and she loves you, you must have been working on it before, if you want to get ready

accept the fact that your husband may not interested in details

accept the fact your husband may be interested in things you are interested in especially football

accept the fact that she is likely to like food more than you do

This is because of if physical make up, men are physically stronger, burn calories faster because they are more physical and that means that they are likely to love food more than you do

accept the fact that your husband has an ego

It is normal, is not put there for dominating you but conquering, for achieving out there, you need manage that ego and make him feel like a hero.

Accept the fact that your husband likes to be alone when his stressed

accept the fact that your husband will like to have sex more often

accept the temperament of your spouse

accept the physical look of your spouse

What I mean by this is the changes that comes with time, pregnancy deposit fats in a woman's body, accept it, Prepare your mind for it

accept the weakness of your spouse weakness

I know that all these things is not easy naturally speaking but we can ask the Holy Spirit for help because the Bible says in Romans 5:5 says "And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us". He will help us, tell your spouse you love him or her just the way you are .

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