That all seems quite the fair environment and one we would ideally look for the way you put it. Since I like blaming myself and trying to adapt.
I know I have a lot to learn and some of it is being really myself, some of it is being organized enough to not waste too much time on side quests... but since I wasted so much of my life already, I know there is a lot of improvement. Which does not mean enough. But one step at a time. Is that my plan?
Still feels like going without a plan and when I make a plan it feels hilarious a few months later, anyway ;)
Rare these days it seems.
I think any good plan is a plan that isn't set in stone as once in action, things that weren't considered in the planning phase can happen that should change the plans.