I appreciate that. I spent a lot of time on the post and thought about it far longer! A person can feel defeated if they don't have initial success at something. I used to feel like maybe something was wrong with me because I didn't seem to be able to meet as many women. But it was all about exposures in a lot of ways. On here maybe this post doesn't make much or maybe it shoots to the top of the trending list. You just never know!