DO YOU PUSH THINGS?

What if we spent less time and energy wondering if he's 'the one'? What if we stopped trying to rush the relationship process and allowed it to evolve?

What if we trusted self more and worried less? What if we allowed ourselves to be led by our intuitive wisdom? What if we believed in the power of our intuition and we allowed it to lead and guide us?

What if we trusted that we will know whether we should stay or walk away? What if we chose to believe that everything we deserve and desire will come into our space and the timing will be perfect? What if there was no 'right' or 'wrong' just conscious CHOICES?

What if we asked for what we needed within the relationship, could lean back, trust and observe? What if we gave ourselves permission to make mistakes and instead of judging or punishing ourselves we simply learned from them.

Conscious relationships take time, patience and wisdom.

Love takes time to grow, trust takes time to build, patterns take time to recognize, communication styles take time to understand, conscious communication takes time to develop.

Our need to 'know' is fear based. Controlling the outcome gives us a false sense of security. So what if we just let go? What if the safe space we create and lean into within ourselves becomes enough?

Every single time I've let him know what I need, desire or want and then leaned back, let go of my 'need to know right now in this moment', and let go of controlling the outcome he's stepped towards me and given me exactly what I've asked for.

But... what if he doesn't? What if you ask for what you need and you lean back and he disappears? Let me say this, then he's not your man! Your man will honour your desires, your wants and your needs.

When we lean back we open up a space for our man to walk into. When we push, cling or demand we fill up the space with energy that makes men want to run far far away.

Men need space and time to show us how they feel. They're much more about the doing then the saying (and you know how the ones quick to tell you what you want to hear fall short in the actions department).

If pushing and needing too much too soon is keeping you from creating space for your man to step in and show you that you're what he wants and who he wants to please.