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RE: Human values: Right conduct (Love in action)-looking back
I wonder why is being judged an issue at all.. Why does being judged make us feel so heavy?What is wrong with being judged if all that it means is that you get to hear someones opinion.
I would love my daughter to answer this one, OMG!!!
Well 'just' hearing someones opinion is perfectly fine, often there are unpleasant consequences if you don't agree though or at least that was the case when we were young and guided by adults that needed our agreeing. All grown up ourselves, it is our challenge to remind ourselves that no one can force us to agree anymore and that we are not in danger when we disagree even if it means the other person won't like us for it. If they only liked us for being agreeable, the love didn't go very deep.