Good. The belief is one of the obstacles to work and lead couples to integrate. Reaching the unit is not easy, nor is it a constant. The context and especially the belief prevents me from accepting the other.
One of the crenecias is that the parents give all for the children and the second the woman must follow the man. The second one marries the first one. It is a directional relationship, I go to you and you do not come to me. The parents go to the children. From the biblical point of view, we hope that it is God who presents himself and guides us. Consequence is liberty for debauchery.
Those beliefs that must be replaced, replace behaviors that are repeating in the couple, where directionality predominates. For example: I use a notebook with the couples where at night they are placed to write the situation that was presented. They analyze, conclude and propose. In short, I have to recognize that strategies and resources are not and always give the expected results