@sirwinchester some of them have programming too
maybe it depends on which game?
some violent video games slip "war" programming in the heads
and if a kid has been exposed to it so much
it could actually become his conditioning
I'd still recommend games that make you move
pokemon - it's also somehow a game that makes the character "fight" at the same time make you walk and go around
but why not tennis or dance your anger out
it will soon turn into love ;)