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RE: SECRET WRITER: I Think I Was Raped By A Girl
That man wasn't "raped" by a girl, he was "raped" by society. Males are stylized as a gender that never denies sex and if they do, they are labeled as weird or gay etc. Plus we don't want to hurt the feelings of the girl, especially a friend. Girls often take great offense in being rejected - they feel like they aren't good enough or pretty enough or whatever. Most guys usually just go with it even if they don't feel like having sex. It's far easier than trying to explain why you didn't and being called a pussy/ douchebag/ dick....
You articulated this really well. I agree with you. You're right, some girls do take great offense when rejected. That happened to me just recently.
Can't really blame em though, I know I've been offended when I was rejected. Given that ladies often don't do it too sensitively lol. If 30 unattractive guys approached me every night I go out, I would be bitter too lol .
I think that's a really good point...
This is the author of the story btw. I can email @stellabelle to confirm if anyone think I'm a troll pretending :p
I think not wanting to offend her was on my mind even if I didn't really realize it. And... The way people think guys always want it kind of feeds into that, cause now it's MORE of an insult to turn them down.
Anyways, I might talk more about this. I was touched by some of the support, and interested in the comments, so I decided to make an account to be able to communicate directly. Thanks!
Great to meet you, thanks for picking my comment haha :)
Nice to meet you too! And I did drop @stellabelle an email, so just in case anyone doubted that I'm really the writer of the story she'd be able to come in and set everything straight :)