Relationships are generally a mirror to our own issues....I think many times its really about us and not "them".....Dont get me wrong of course there is very toxic people, but like you pointed out what if we loved them so unconditionally like a dog that we loved them to heal.......I love your angle on this, and although i fail still i am trying to be more accepting and loving of,peoples flaws because i sure had and have them.....🙏🙏🙏