What I suggest to be the solution is that each sex should never stop courting even in marriage, it is the most beautiful part of relationship. The bound at this stage is just too high.

Indeed.
and when the courting is done from a place outside the game, that is when the two people are aware of the duality and the courting game, then it's even more fun. Why? because there is no emotional drama, and the senses are more open to experience the interaction.