My friend @gloglo, this is a very interesting topic, ideal partner, is there really an ideal partner?
I believe a lot of relationships have crashed because we are looking for the ideal partner or would i say we want to make an ideal partner out of our partners.
I think we should look for a suitable partner rather than an ideal one and by suitable, I mean one who understands you to some extent because i hear people say one who understands you inside and out, one who understands you perfectly, but i beg to differ, there can't be anyone who understands you perfectly because we are humans and very complex, so when we have someone who understands us to some extent I think that is agreeable.
Secondly we should look out for someone who loves us or accepts us for who we are and not what we can offer else when we no longer have that thing, then love grows cold.
We should also accept someone who we can cope with his circle of friends and family. When you are in a relationship with someone especially when it is a serious one you tend to also be in arealationship with his friends and family so also look out for the things you wont tolerate and from the onset show your disapproval if not when you try to put down your feet later on, it creates a very big challenge why did you permit it in the first place if you are not ok with it.
Finally your partner should be able to make sacrifices for you.