The Twenty-First Episode of Let's Talk About It With @oluwatobiloba. It Is All About Life, Love and Relationships.

Hello friends, it is another beautiful Saturday again and just like yesterday, we have gone past another week successfully. Even if you had a rough week, I want you to understand that you have every reason to be grateful, your week cannot be as bad as those who lost everything they ever worked for in a single day and it cannot be as bad as those who have lost someone really special to them, so why don't we just take a moment to say thank you to the one who has been our sustainer, and believe that everything will get better with time.

This is my own little way of welcoming you to another exciting episode of let's talk about it with @oluwatobiloba, a place where you get the latest gist and you have the opportunity to bring back love to the lives of those who feel helpless and hopeless. The most important thing in life is making an impact while we still have the opportunity to do, so join me as we help restore the smile to someone's face again this week.

REPORT FROM THE PREVIOUS EPISODE.

Last week's episode was a really tough one I must confess and even those that came around felt sad for the young lovers in question, you can get a glimpse of what I am talking about Here.
But with the help of everyone that came around online and offline, I was able to get answers to the question asked and I hope that these lovers who just found out that they are cousins, will be able to get over each other with time.

QUESTION FOR THE WEEK.

Tobi, I want to ask you this question and I hope that I get an answer. Why are people so particular about virginity in Ladies and no one seems to pay any attention to the fact that some guys need to keep their virginity as well.
Some of these young guys who even rant about wanting to settle down with a virgin are the ones who have slept with numerous ladies and even deflowered some of them. The issue is really annoying and I just want to know if there is any reason behind this.

THE GIST FOR THIS WEEK.

I received this mail during the course of the week and I felt very bad for this lovers. The question that came to my mind was if life must be cruel and if everyone cannot just be good and nice, but unfortunately, some people cannot just be nice and we have to tread with caution.

Hello Tobi, my name is James and I got to know about your show from a friend who said I could confide in you and I hope you will be able to assist me in any way you can.
I am not really a social person and I have kept myself from hurting any Lady because I wanted to meet my own woman pure and untouched. I refrained from enjoying life with numerous women like some young men would do and I focused mainly on building myself into a better person.

I finally meet this beautiful Lady who meets my perfect description of the woman I would love to spend the rest of my life with, we began this love affair and I really liked everything about her. I did not waste much time to visit her parents and also introduce her to mine, our wedding ceremony is scheduled to take place in two weeks time and I have anticipated this day so much.
However, two months ago, she was kidnapped and for days she was kept in the custody of this criminals while we struggled and prayed to get her out. While she was in the custody of these criminals, she got deflowered, when she told me, I felt really bad but because of the sake of the love I had for her, I decided to overlook it until last week.
Last week, we found out that she was two months pregnant already, she was having the child of those criminals and I am supposed to get married to her in two weeks time.

I love her so much but I cannot get my mind off the fact that she is carrying the child of another man while I am supposed to get married to her in two weeks time. I am stuck in between canceling the wedding ceremony and moving on with her for the sake of love. But, I do not want to make any mistake that will cost me my happiness.
I am really dumbfounded right now and I just need help, I still love her but I don't know if I can get y mind off the fact that another man's child is going to be the first fruit of our marriage.

SHOUT-OUTS.

@gee1: Shout out to @tojukaka, @ehiboss, @ogoowinner, @mosunomotunde, @surfyogi, @jeaniepearl. I love you all.

@trendyevents: I am sending a thousand kisses to my kids who celebrated their birthday on the 7th of July and the 9th of August respectively and to my lovely husband @eugenercr7.
I highly appreciate my family members, friends, and in-laws who have stood with me through thick and thin. I love you all.

CLOSING REMARK.

I have not been able to offer anything special to you for your constant support and love but you have always been there, I mean you and you. May God bless you for me, thank you very much for supporting this little girl and believing in me. I love you all.

I remain your very humble Nigerian Lady @oluwatobiloba.
You can get in contact with me through the following channels:
Mail: [email protected].
Discord: oluwatobiloba #6116.

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