Concerning checking of your partner gadget, Believed me if your partner is being holy enough. I don't see crime in checking that, but if you know is not trustworthy person don't do that to avoid high blood pressure.

For miss x my advice for her is that, she should have it at the back of her mind whatever belongs to her will ever be her own forever and don't have this mindset of without this thing, you won't be able to cope. Don't attached your life to one particular thing. Lastly don't allow your emotion to run you down.

@oluwatobiloba thanks for good work you are doing for the general public. God will reward you with more sbd and steem power.