Many people thinks that relationship is more of enjoyment and fun forgetting the fact that they are more of trouble and correction in relegation. When I'm talking of relationship I'm talking about dating or courtship.

Its really wonder me seeing every little girls and boys(less than even 14) rushing into relationship and dating without even having any clear vision or goal of going into relationship.

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Have you ever wonder that 80% of courtship and dating usually does not end well because of Tue wrong view people are having before going in relationship. There have been so many broken relationship during the past years and yet we don't really know or understand the cause of broken relationship.

Now days every young guy are looking for girls to start a relationship with and not having a clear goal and vision for dating. Some times I usually feel pity for our girl because many men are making use of their soft emotional feelings in deceiving them into relationship not knowing bad and wrong intention the guys have in mind.

Dating is not all about having sex. Sex in usually the result of affection not main aim of dating, but what do we have today, without sex relationship has not get started.

Are we taken this too far in relationship. Some one said to me some time ago that too much sex in relationship usually kills the love and trust in relationship. Some times I reason this statement could it be the reason we are having so many failed relationship in the past or are we getting it wrong where?

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This is a nice question we should all ask our self then what is now the solution to failed relationship. For a young man and woman will be professing love for each other at the early part of their relationship, after some while the love and affection begins to drop drastically to the very end of it.

In my personal findings I observed that the kind of love many people usually talked about in dating is sexual love and this kind of love does not last because after having sex multiple time sexual love begins to declined over a long period of time. Now because more people built their relationship on this kind of love, then they result of it is not usually favorable.

What most people need to understand is that love is not all about sex, there is more to love than sex. We need to figure this out and adjust of through and perception towards sex in relationship.

Have you ever wondered that they are people who are married of years but they are still in love with each other even till death.

Love is more than emotional feelings. Or sexual thoughts, but its more togetherness and tolerances towards each other.

A man or woman will can't tolerate we always have issues in relationship because every humans has its own characteristics. Some times your behaviour of your mate may not suit your been but you to tolerate to move on.

Tolerance is a must for every successful relationship.

Regards @okoro