Hello Friends,

Here I am Lucia again trying to find a good and virtuous topic to inscribe and share at the same time to learn about.

So the topic for today is "A Woman Gets Free After Divorce".

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It is hard to know why one says yes and gets married, but most of us do. It is what society expects and what the girl does not want on the day of the wedding. So there you are marching down the aisle in your father's loving arm to be introduced to the groom smiling nervously at the altar. My, you look good, the meeting includes all the members of your family and friends, and they say the words of magic and bingo. You are now husband and wife.

The problem is that the girl does not really know what awaits her. At first everything is lovey dovey. Only you two are in your little love nest and then something happens. You begin to feel apprehensive and the next thing is that you give up. Wow, the doctor confirms that you're pregnant. What! Already, you think for yourself.

Of course, your partner is happy, or at least it seems to be. But now comes the difficult. Up to this point, you were working and both had an income. Now, you have to stop working and what he gives you is a misery, in any case. Hears! This is not the way it is supposed to be. Our mother comes to the rescue and provides meals and others to help you.

You ask what is happening. Why is not he providing you? It is obvious that you have to generate your own income. You can not leave now, but things are not working. He stays outside, sometimes until the first hours of the morning. You ask where he has been and he tells you he was working or in the boss's house.

Things crawl and go from bad to worse. Finally, the day comes when she goes into labor. The hours lengthen as you go through hell. Beside it there is a closet and lined up at the top there is a row of shiny metal instruments. You look at them and you shudder. Are you going to use me, you wonder how the next contraction begins and breathe deeply into the mask?

Of course, your partner is with you most of the day until he bends over for lunch. You can not eat even if it's past noon and you have not had anything, not even a glass of water, since 7 o'clock on the previous night. They give you some ice to suck on but you can not swallow it.

Finally, the doctor arrives and the baby is born. The pain of his arrival makes you scream and you are ashamed. Then you discover that the doctor had to cut you to let your head out. It is a hell of a moment. You see your child briefly before they kill him in an incubator because he is so small.

Then the partner disappears. He goes to a party to celebrate. They take you to a neighborhood to be visited by your parents while you wonder why you got married on earth. The next day you walk through the two floors of the hospital with the stitches pulling you to find your baby. Nobody has told you anything about him.

There is! You know him instantly and he is screaming his head. When he grows up and becomes a man, he will begin to blame you for the divorce. What happened to force me to do such a thing, ask because I was not aware of the problems? After all, have you ever seen your father pass out the treatment you went through while raising him? He does not know how hard you worked to send him to a private school. Or how they hit you when the fellow arrived home drunk and covered your black eyes the next day, Christmas day.

This is a story that many mothers have to tell and it is difficult. But once the divorce is over you are free. Who said you can not do it on your own, after all that is what you've been doing all along. But now it does not have the free loader that takes everything and does not return anything.

Divorce is unpleasant, messy and painful because you really gave everything. The problem is that you were married to the wind and that sometimes it blew in your direction and in others it was a storm directed in the wrong direction. Marriage is a mistake for many people and divorce is a great launch.

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