How Do Children See Divorce and the Pain Behind It?
Hello Friends,
Here I am Lucia again trying to find a good and virtuous topic to inscribe and share at the same time to learn about.
So the topic for today is "Children see divorce and the Pain".
No child should have to see their divorced parents and live with the consequences. That is why many of the problems that cause it are hidden. They may not know how the violence begins or why the arguments are so persistent. Also, you may never realize the pain that one or both parents suffer. Only when it happens in front of them will they know of the physical and verbal abuse that occurs.
Is it wrong, therefore, to protect children from these things? Would not it be better to be aware of them to form a trial?
On the other hand, do parents keep these things for themselves for fear that a child will discuss it with others?
Even that does not seem like a logical explanation. Without doubt, a child has the right to know what is causing the breakdown of their home. Is it not convenient to decide who is right or not?
Having gone through a divorce and working overtime to keep the reasons for myself, I deprived my children of their right to know. However, things appear in recent years and will be the mother who is blamed for the bad things that happened in the past. It is also likely that the father harms the mother and causes a gap between her and the children to take revenge for leaving her.
In Australia, in recent years, we have seen parents perform outrageous acts in revenge of this nature. A man threw his five-year-old daughter off a bridge in Melbourne on the road to returning her children to her mother after a weekend visit. It must have been the girl's first day at school.
Another father drove a car with his three children to a lake and killed them while taking them back to their mother. Then he called her and told her that the children were dead.
Again and again the horrors of divorce and revenge are played. A loving father will always support his offspring and protect them. But there are some things that do not need protection. In my opinion, the reasons for divorce and broken home are one of them.
Maybe if I had never had the experience and I would not have had an adult child accusing me of not wanting it enough because I had a bad haircut in a school picture, this would not bother me. But he does it because there is no way now that he can see my point of view or know about the immense burden placed on me at that moment. Maybe one day he will understand.
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