Mistakes Women Make When Choosing Their Idea Men.

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You wanna know while some women are still unmarried today, I said some and not all ooh it is because they think about the present and not about the future. They look for errors and flaws instead of looking for other things the man can offer. After taking lots of observations I've managed to come up with 5 cases that has kept out beautiful women with a ring on their left fourth finger today.

1. Looks.
I want a tall man, i want a dark men, my man must be very cute, he must have a long nose..... Blah! Blah!! Blah!!!. My madam is very beautiful but she selects a whole lot if not she would have been married for like a year now. Why care about his looks when its his brains and maturity that would take care of you and your kids.

2. His salary worth.
If he isn't earning up to 250k a month, then we can get married. Hey you really should grow up!!! Even if he earns less than 100k doesn't mean he doesn't have a good business idea wthat will double up his income. Help him invest so that his returns can be 2 times his salary.

3. His car.
Some girls even said they can't date a man who doesn't have a mobile house(car). Instead of advicing your man to get a car first when he should get a land first no matter how small the size and start his own building. A car is not the primary needs of a man so a woman should stop caring about this and priortizing a car as the most important asset in a man before she'll be willing to end up with him.

4. Not done living my life.
"I cannot be tied down to just one man just yet, I still have my life to live to the fullest" Who says you cannot live a happy and groovy life even when you tie the nuptial knot? This is why some girls wash off and are left unmarried now because they've turned down a lot of marriage offer from men they've dated in the past. There is no right time for marriage. You can marry late and still marry Wong and you can marry early and still marry right.

5. Too picky.
Some girls at too picky about tribe. If he's not from Yoruba, I won't marry him. That's nonsense. Tribe doesn't make a man perfect for you. Every tribe has classy and very intelligent men. Some girls look at how expensive a man's wrist watch and belt is before accepting his proposal. They want to be admired by their friends that their man's outfit is expensive and dope but for real is this even relevant. Yes he should look good and presentable but how expensive his outfit is shouldn't be a priority for accepting his proposal.

Before you think about all this things listed above, think of how you can touch him up to class. Help him save and invest, assist him with business ideas. Do not prioritize his flaws and weakness, no man is perfect and I'm sure they are lots of things he's condoning in your relationship because he loves you. Change your perspective about choosing your husband, there is not right time for marriage.

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