Wake up to the truth....

ChiChi what is it? Why are you wailing? Did anyone die? Nneka inquired. You have been muttering words and turning from side to side at night and today this sudden outburst. What could possibly be the problem Nneka asked.

See my life is finished, ah it is finished chichi replied sobbing and jerking rythmically. At this point Nkem lost all sense of patience and grabbed her childhood friend by the wrist saying you must tell me what the problem is now or I'll call mummy. ah no oh, mummy must not hear this please chichi pleaded . Okay,John just broke up with me and my life is finished. Nneka who was looking all gloomy lightened up immediately and laughed hysterically saying So is that why you have been moody through out the week? Eh, Is that one relationship? Have I not been begging you to leave that relationship since 1980. Ah ah, wait was that why You were sobbing? In fact you don't have a problem.

Ah Nne, 6 years of playing wife, spending money,having sex and even family dinners and it's all gone just like that. He just said he is tired of the relationship and feels stuck in a rut.

I remember praying and praying for a life partner. I stood on every prayer line, went for every all night from night of marital miracle to marry me or die programs and now I'm back to square one.chai, so na me go carry last this year? Nneka still couldn't bring herself to believe ChiChi didn't see this coming.

Ermmm, my friend if I must tell you the truth, whenever you wake up to truth, your morning begins.

John always gave you clues but love they say is blind.You didn't see it coming. He never allowed you to browse with his phone for a second and that should have been a red flag. He had series of ladies as best friends.The only time you had a good time was when you guys had sex so you should have known the relationship was really a shallow one.

Brace up,life is beautiful Nneka encouraged Chichi with a hug.

My counsel

The day you wake up is your morning
Don't wait to become an option in a relationship.
You can only be as valuable as you value yourself
Your happiness and sanity is first.
Don't date without direction because ladies don't have that much time to waste.
The best form of revenge is success so wake up and get busy.
The fact that a previous relationship was a mess doesn't mean you ain't a queen.
If he didn't treat you as you thought you deserved, you played a part in it.
There are still Good men so don't let your past rub you of a present miracle.
You can still retrace yours steps and be treated right.
you are priceless.

I hope this becomes the healing and air beneath your wings to fly