Nicely written bro! But I think No means No sometimes. There's a No you will get and immediately understand she means it. In cases like this I simply walk. She will still respect you. But if you persist and she gets tired she ends up loosing regards for you. Almost every girl in naija is in a relationship..lol..trust me. And they tend to say no to a new guy for the respect they have for their existing relationship. The hen and cock part sha...lol.