INTERESTING MARRIAGE ADVICE FOR YOU.

in #relationship5 years ago

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Hello and welcome to my blog today.

Marriage is not an easy one at all. Those who have gone through it and are still going through it can testify. Charlie Boy once said that he has spent 20 years with his wife, it's not because marriage is too sweet but because of endurance and perseverance. I'm single for now and out of curiosity I asked my Boss whom I worked for before gaining admission into the university what he can say he has learnt from marriage so far when I attended his 15 years wedding anniversary and this what he shard with me.
1 When you marry 1 woman, expect to live with 3 women;

a The woman you think she is, you may have thought her to be worse or better than the other women you dated but didn't marry.

b The woman she is, marriage exposes the good/bad in every person. The real person behind a woman comes to play in marriage.

c The woman she's going to become when she's married to you. He said this one is actually up to the man. My wife is now fat, she ties wrapper all around the house, she's not as beat and sexy as before when we were still dating, all of this might happen because you (the man) want it.

2 Your woman does not really need you to give her the world, big or expensive things. Giving her a hand in the kitchen, Kissing her forehead, appreciating her with surprise dates, telling her much you love her all the time, accompanying her to the saloon, hugging and kissing her in public etc could make her feel loved and special.

3 Don't always demand "respect" from any woman. Respect her first and she'll reciprocate that respect both with her words and actions.just like "GIGO" (cabbage in and gabbage out), what you show her is what you'll get.

4 The sex your woman gives you at home is the most expensive so stop valuing a side chick because she will cost you more. Invest in your woman, that's the wisdom to long life.

5 Your relationship with not just your woman but your family as a whole should be built on a foundation of love and revereance for God. All relationships built with God survives every attack or circumstances and lasts long.

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