A lady is not supposed to be cheaply gotten no matter what. Don't you see that you must woo her. To woo means to endeavour to get her attention. To endeavour means to exert yourself , to try strenuously , assiduously, with much hard work. That is how it is meant to be. Anything less is unacceptable so brace yourself to woo your woman if you really think she is worth it.
lols! I wasn't born for such stress! A woman who plays hard to get can look elsewhere! This getting hard to get is ancient. I wasn't born in that generation and i don't intend to practice it.
When you find that someone worth going that extra mile for, you will know.