Seal Up That Crack II, Contributed By @Olawalium.
…continued… from part 1
Have you wondered why some men would choose to get close to their secretary because they feel they are not respected in the house; forgetting that the secretary was actually paid to give respect to him? Any human would always tilt towards where he is respected rather than where he is tolerated.
You need to be available for him; physically and emotionally. Marriage is not a child’s play. You need to dress sexy and enticing even in the house. Don’t let marriage turn you into an old school woman. Stay trendy and be admirable. If not, you will get angry anytime a lady sends him a text that she misses him; whether he was there for the lady at a friendship level or the lady gave the attention which you didn’t give which doesn’t have to be sexual. You need to seal up the cracks.
This isn’t just for the ladies but as you all know, I address real life situations and I give the advice based on who seeks the help. The advice is for both. In marriage only one person can’t make it work and you need to complement each other’s effort by living up to the expectation by which you expect your partner to live up to. Every little thing matters. Send a text, send him an emoji or you could leave a small note in his car. Always stay on his mind, fill his whole head with thoughts of you. Seal up those cracks because the crack left unattended to will definitely cause a fall. Your idea of marriage will determine what you will do to make things better for your home. Don’t starve him of what you can easily provide for him.
You have to accord each other respect. Talking anyhow to your spouse is disrespectful and it is not wise. Most of the people who treat their spouse anyhow do feel that their marriage can’t be breached. They are so comfortable to feel they have their spouse under a leash and would never go away. We all have our breaking point, regardless of the level of love we have for each other. A good marriage doesn’t just happen; you have to work at it. Constant communication helps and being available when it matters the most. Mend those cracks and you will see how enjoyable your marriage or relationship would turn out. It takes caution too.
THE END.
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@olawalium sir.
It is a human nature that the person who gets easily into life, loses his value. These things also apply in marital life. This is the reason that despite being his wife in the house, he gives more attention to the office-bearer's secretary. Though his love is transient because he is taking money from you in return, so his tilt is natural on your side. To a large extent, there are also responsible wives, who make tetanus at the beginning of the marriage, later gradually lose them due to routine or they can not continue. Because of which, the charm of her husband is reduced to him.
Hmm...i understand you. Thanks brother.
Hi @olawalium ,that is the perfect saying of you that marriage is not a child's play. Both needs to be matured in order to marriage and live the happy life.
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Exactly, it is not for babies. It takes a lot of maturity which comes with better understanding and willingness to learn.
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