@olawalium sir.
It is a human nature that the person who gets easily into life, loses his value. These things also apply in marital life. This is the reason that despite being his wife in the house, he gives more attention to the office-bearer's secretary. Though his love is transient because he is taking money from you in return, so his tilt is natural on your side. To a large extent, there are also responsible wives, who make tetanus at the beginning of the marriage, later gradually lose them due to routine or they can not continue. Because of which, the charm of her husband is reduced to him.